My Secret Brooklyn Guide: Favorite Spots in NYC

Hey gorgeous!

I'm Stephanie, and I'm an award-winning boudoir photographer here in Brooklyn, NY. I absolutely adore this borough – it's where my creativity thrives, and it's constantly buzzing with an energy that just fuels my work.

But Brooklyn is more than just a backdrop for my boudoir magic. It's a full-on experience, and I want you to feel completely pampered and in-the-know when you book a shoot with me at Brooklyn Boudoir Photography. That's why I'm putting together this guide to all my favorite spots in NYC, especially those hidden gems in Brooklyn that will make your photoshoot even more unforgettable.

Top Brooklyn Stays

First things first: where to stay! Brooklyn offers a fantastic range of hotels, each with its own unique vibe. Whether you're looking for industrial-chic with a rooftop view (Wythe Hotel) or a sleek, modern space in a vibrant neighborhood (Arlo Williamsburg), you're sure to find the perfect home base for your boudoir experience.

Here are a few of my recommendations, all within a comfortable 15-20 minute drive from Brooklyn Boudoir Photography:

• Wythe Hotel: This industrial-chic hotel is a Brooklyn staple, offering stunning skyline views from its rooftop bar. It's the perfect place to unwind after your shoot and soak up the city's energy. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• Arlo Williamsburg: If you love a modern aesthetic, Arlo Williamsburg won't disappoint. It's got all the cool amenities you could ask for, plus it puts you right in the heart of the Williamsburg action. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• The William Vale: Contemporary rooms with skyline views, Italian restaurant, rooftop bar. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• The Hoxton: Modern rooms, a lively lobby area, and three restaurants. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• Penny Williamsburg: Stylish, minimalistic design with cozy rooms and great service. $$. 20-minute drive.

• Hotel Indigo: Contemporary rooms, outdoor pool, and pet-friendly. $$. 20-minute drive.

Eats and Treats Around the Studio

Now, onto the good stuff: food! Brooklyn is a haven for foodies, and there are incredible options for every taste bud right around the corner from Brooklyn Boudoir Photography.

Need a pre-shoot caffeine fix? SEY Coffee, literally across the street, is a local favorite known for its high-quality brews. Feeling like a pastry and a cozy atmosphere? Swallow Cafe is your spot – be mindful they are cash-only (but don't worry, there's an ATM inside!).

But boudoir photography isn't just about pampering before your shoot – it's about celebrating afterwards too! Here are a couple of my go-to restaurants for a post-shoot celebratory meal:

• Roberta's: This Williamsburg institution is famous for its wood-fired pizzas and trendy vibes. It's the perfect place to grab a slice (or two) with your girlfriends and toast to your boudoir empowerment. 5-minute walk from the studio.

• Mominette: Craving something a little more intimate? Mominette offers a cozy French-inspired menu with lovely garden seating. It's pure Parisian charm right here in Brooklyn. 12-minute walk from the studio.

• Ichiran: Renowned Japanese ramen chain known for its unique solo dining experience. 5-minute walk from the studio.

• Otis: Cozy, modern eatery renowned for its inventive dishes - dinner only. 5-minute walk from the studio.

Explore and Unwind in Brooklyn

Your boudoir shoot is all about you, and Brooklyn offers the perfect environment to explore and embrace your inner goddess. Here are a few of my favorite things to do around the studio that will get you feeling confident and inspired:

• Bushwick Collective: Bushwick is an open-air art gallery, with stunning murals splashed across buildings throughout the neighborhood. Take a walk and soak up the creativity – it's the perfect pre-shoot warm-up!

• Better Than Jam: Right next door to the studio, Better Than Jam is a treasure trove of unique, handmade clothing and accessories from local artists. Treat yourself to a little retail therapy after your shoot – you deserve it!

• L Train Vintage: Massive selection of affordable vintage clothing and accessories.

• Friends NYC: Trendy boutique offering vintage items, quirky gifts, and accessories.

• Maria Hernandez Park: Need a moment of zen? Maria Hernandez Park is a lovely green space perfect for a post-shoot stroll or picnic.

Ready to Book Your Brooklyn Boudoir Experience?

This is just a taste of what Brooklyn has to offer, and I can't wait to help you discover your own favorite spots during your boudoir shoot with Brooklyn Boudoir Photography.

My studio is a warm and inviting space designed to make you feel comfortable and confident. I'll guide you every step of the way, from wardrobe selection to posing, to ensure you capture stunning and empowering images you'll love.

Ready to book your Brooklyn boudoir experience? Contact me today – let's chat about your dream shoot!

Maternity Boudoir – Why It’s Important to Celebrate Your Pregnant Body

Hello mamas-to-be! I'm Stephanie, an award-winning professional boudoir photographer based right here in the heart of Brooklyn. Today I want to share why celebrating your pregnant body through a maternity boudoir is an experience every mom should have the chance to enjoy.

Why Maternity Boudoir?

Pregnancy is a time of profound transformation, and your body is performing nothing short of a miracle. You're growing a tiny human inside you, and that deserves to be celebrated! A maternity boudoir session isn't just about creating stunning photographs; it's about empowering you, showcasing the incredible changes your body is going through, and boosting your confidence during this life-changing journey.

In the warm, inviting atmosphere of my Brooklyn Boudoir studio, we focus on highlighting your natural beauty and the unique radiance that pregnancy brings. Maternity boudoir sessions are a blend of artistry and self-love, allowing you to connect with your body in a way you may have never thought possible. Trust me, the experience of capturing this moment in time is one you'll cherish forever.

Embracing Your Confidence

One of the most remarkable things about maternity boudoir is the boost of confidence it provides. Many expectant mothers struggle with body image issues during pregnancy, as their bodies undergo significant changes. Maternity boudoir is a powerful antidote to those insecurities. As your photographer, I work closely with you to ensure you feel comfortable and empowered throughout the session.

You'll be amazed at the strength, beauty, and sensuality you exude as an expectant mother. It's an experience to witness the transformation from vulnerability to confidence in the span of a single photoshoot. The images we create together serve as a visual reminder of your strength, beauty, and the love you hold for your unborn child.

Capturing the Glow

Maternity boudoir is about creating art that tells a story. Whether you choose to be draped in flowing fabrics, capture the intimacy of your baby bump with your partner, or go for a more sensual solo session, Maternity boudoir photography is a personalized experience tailored to your vision and comfort level.

As a professional boudoir photographer, I understand the nuances of working with pregnant women. I know how to capture your essence, highlight your curves, and make you feel like the radiant goddess you are. The end result is a collection of breathtaking images that you and your family will cherish for a lifetime. These photos go beyond the idea that they are meant to be for you; they're actually a legacy of love for your child, the beginning of your story together from now on.

Maternity Boudoir as a Unique Gift

Imagine the look on your child's face when they see the stunning maternity boudoir photos of their expectant mom. It's a priceless gift you'll be passing down through generations, showing them the love and strength that surrounded their arrival.

Moreover, maternity boudoir makes for a meaningful gift to your partner. It's a celebration of the love you share, and seeing you in this empowering light can strengthen your connection during this unique time in your lives. It's a beautiful way to bond and create lasting memories together as you eagerly anticipate the arrival of your little one.

The Brooklyn Boudoir Experience: Tailored for You

At Brooklyn Boudoir, we pride ourselves on creating a safe, comfortable, and empowering environment for our clients. Your maternity boudoir session is all about you—your vision, your comfort, your uniqueness. We offer a variety of packages and customization options to ensure your experience aligns perfectly with your desires and preferences.

So, to all the beautiful, expecting mothers out there, I encourage you to take this incredible experience with me. Embrace your pregnant body, celebrate your strength, and create breathtaking maternity boudoir photos that will forever remind you of this remarkable chapter in your life. Don't let these precious moments slip away undocumented. Contact Brooklyn Boudoir today, and let's capture the beauty of your pregnancy together. Trust me; you won't regret it!

A Recap of the Very First Boudoir in the City Event | An Iconic New York City Weekend

Earlier this summer I co-hosted a fabulous boudoir retreat with my favorite lingerie shop, Sugar Cookies and it was an amazing time. Here’s a recap:

About 2 years ago, I teamed up with Sugar Cookies NYC, a boutique I already loved, to bring boudoir into their shop for mini shoots a few times a year. We always had such a good time with our events, and so we wanted to find a way to take these in-store events to new heights. Each time we hosted mini Boudoir photoshoots at Sugar Cookies, we were delighted to see women of all ages, sizes and walks of life coming together to shop and cheer each other on as they got their photos taken. What we aimed to do with Boudoir in the City was bring a group like this together for a full weekend to connect, empower each other, and enjoy luxurious perks as an act of self love and self care… and I’m going to say we succeeded!

The weekend began with private shopping appointments full of bubbly and lots of lingerie. Attendees shopped on their own or with a friend as we discussed the most flattering silhouettes, the best ways to pose and what to expect from their upcoming photoshoot. This was the perfect introduction to our retreat and gave everyone the opportunity to get in the Boudoir mood! 

Later that evening we headed downtown to the iconic Duane Park for a burlesque dinner show. I had been once before and it felt like the obvious choice for our retreat. The Duane Park experience is nothing short of decadent from start to finish. From the decor to the cocktails to the incredible performers, every detail is of the place is just perfect. A live band and singer accompanied glamorous burlesque performers as we ate a beautiful three course meal and sipped on Rosé. We couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate confidence and to inspire each other for the following day of photoshoots.

Finally the day had come! Attendees were welcomed to the beautiful Wythe Hotel and led upstairs to our room drenched in sunlight and enveloped by a view of the New York City skyline. Bubbly, snacks, and lingerie awaited as I prepared each attendee for an epic photoshoot.

All of our attendees brought their brand new lingerie pieces from Sugar Cookies and posed all throughout the gorgeous room. This was a very special opportunity to shoot with me outside of the studio! After their shoot, many attendees took to the stunning rooftop of the Wythe for a celebratory cocktail. What a dream!

I even got to photograph my style icon, Susanne, the owner of Sugar Cookies (finally!) in some amazing silk pajamas by Skin Worldwide. These pjs made such a splash when Susanne wore them to the Curve Expo a week prior - literally everyone stopped her to ask about her look. It’s the perfect daytime or bedtime look. And great news - Susanne will start selling these pjs at the shop later this summer. It’s always such a special experience photographing a woman you admire. More images from that shoot will be coming soon.

Our ultimate goal for Boudoir in the City was to allow space for women to simply enjoy and indulge in some of the most unique experiences New York City has to offer. We had women from the city and from farther away joining us, and we loved sharing a full weekend dedicated to celebrating and empowering yourself through glamour.

If you missed the retreat, fear not - I will be teaming up with Sugar Cookies once again for something that’s … shall we say...next level. But before we make the big announcement we want your input! Our next retreat requires a flight & will combine all the fabulous elements of past events into one epic mini trip. 

So whether you attended this retreat OR if you missed our Boudoir in the City weekend & are interested in a glamorous getaway in the future, we’d love for you to fill out this quick questionnaire so we can tailor our next experience to YOU.

xoxo,

Stephanie

Join Us in NYC for an Unforgettable Event - Here's Why You Shouldn't Miss It!

I couldn't be more thrilled to invite you to our exclusive event in the heart of the Big Apple. Trust me when I say you won't want to miss this incredible opportunity. With our weekends already booked for the rest of the year, it's clear that this event is going to be off the charts. So, buckle up and let me walk you through the amazing reasons why you need to be a part of this unforgettable experience.

Indulge in Spectacular NYC Skyline Views

Prepare to have your breath taken away as you feast your eyes on the mesmerizing skyline of the city that never sleeps. Our event venue, the Wythe Hotel in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, offers a stunning location that provides panoramic views of the iconic New York City landscape. Situated in the heart of Williamsburg, this boutique hotel is housed in a historic, refurbished factory on the Brooklyn waterfront, giving you an unobstructed vantage point to marvel at the awe-inspiring sights.

The experience of witnessing the breathtaking cityscape from the Wythe Hotel is an unforgettable moment that will etch itself in your memory forever. You'll be in awe of the vastness and beauty that surrounds you. The juxtaposition of the urban landscape against the backdrop of the endless sky creates a sense of wonder and possibility. It's a view that evokes a mixture of excitement, inspiration, and admiration for the metropolis that never sleeps.

Brooklyn Boudoir Shoot at the Wythe Hotel in lingerie purchased at Sugar Cookies

Foster Camaraderie with Like-Minded Women

The power of connection is immeasurable, and this event offers you the perfect opportunity to forge meaningful bonds with other like-minded women. Surround yourself with a supportive and empowering community that shares your passions, dreams, and aspirations. Through engaging discussions, workshops, and networking activities, you'll have the chance to connect with fellow attendees who are on similar journeys. Together, we'll create an atmosphere that fosters collaboration, inspiration, and lifelong friendships. Whether you're an entrepreneur, artist, or professional seeking personal growth, this event is the ideal platform to expand your network and find your tribe.

Me at Sugar Cookies celebrating my 44th birthday with some lingerie

Private Shopping Appointments at Sugar Cookies

Ladies, get ready to immerse yourself in a shopping experience that will leave you breathless! As part of our highly-anticipated event, we are thrilled to offer you an exclusive opportunity to indulge in private shopping appointments at none other than Sugar Cookies, the renowned boutique known for its chic and trendy fashion selections. This is a shopping experience like no other, designed to cater to your unique style and fashion preferences.

Imagine stepping into the elegant and stylish boutique, where racks of carefully curated pieces await your perusal. From sophisticated dresses to edgy statement pieces, the collection at Sugar Cookies is sure to capture your imagination. As you walk through the store, you'll be accompanied by a personal stylist who is dedicated to helping you find the perfect outfits that reflect your individuality and make you feel like the confident woman you truly are.

At the end of your private shopping appointment, not only will you leave with a selection of stunning outfits that make you feel like a million dollars, but you'll also carry with you a newfound appreciation for the transformative power of fashion. It's more than just clothes—it's a journey of self-discovery, a way to express your individuality and make a statement to the world.

Experience an Amazing Dinner & Show at NYC's Most Iconic & Sexy Venues

Prepare to be dazzled and entertained like never before. We've curated an incredible evening that combines a delectable dinner with an unforgettable show at one of NYC's most iconic and sexy venues. Immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere of the city's nightlife, as you indulge in delicious food, captivating performances, and an electric ambiance that will leave you craving more. From the glitz and glamour of Broadway to the sultry jazz clubs in the Village, New York City is renowned for its world-class entertainment. This evening will be a feast for your senses, a night of laughter, music, and sheer enchantment that will create memories to last a lifetime.

Here’s a hint… photo credit: L’Secret de Audrey

Be the First to Know about Our Next Event and Get a Special Discount

As a special bonus for attending our NYC event, you'll be given exclusive access to be the first to know about our next big event. Trust me, you don't want to miss what we have in store! Our team is already hard at work planning an even more spectacular gathering that will take your breath away. By joining us in NYC, you become part of an inner circle, and we value your commitment to our community. Not only that, but you'll also receive a special discount on registration for being part of our select group in the city that never sleeps. This is your chance to stay ahead of the curve, experience something truly extraordinary, and create a legacy of unforgettable adventures.

I hope you're as excited as I am about our upcoming event in NYC! With the weekends booked for the rest of the year, it's clear that this is an opportunity you won't want to miss. From the awe-inspiring skyline views and the camaraderie with like-minded women to the private shopping appointments and the amazing dinner and show, this event promises to be an unforgettable experience. Join us in the city that never sleeps, and let's create memories that will last a lifetime. Be sure to secure your spot and get ready for an adventure of a lifetime! Together, we'll embark on a journey that celebrates empowerment, connection, and personal growth. Don't let this extraordinary opportunity pass you by. See you in the concrete jungle!

Top 6 Designer Lingerie Brands For Your Boudoir Photo Shoot

My gorgeous client in the Atelier Amour Douce Insomnie Open Bodysuit, purchased at Sugar Cookies NYC

Ladies, are you looking for a way to elevate your boudoir photo shoot and capture your beauty in the most stunning way possible? One of the easiest ways to do that is by investing in designer lingerie that not only looks fabulous but also feels amazing. Here are six designer lingerie brands that are worth the price tag that will help you feel confident and beautiful during your boudoir photo shoot.

For French Flair: Atelier Amour and Aubade

The Aubade Melodie D'Ete Half Cup Bra (psst: currently on sale!)

French lingerie is known for its elegance and sophistication, and Atelier Amour and Aubade are no exception. These two brands offer a wide range of lingerie pieces that are perfect for any boudoir photo shoot. Atelier Amour is a relatively new brand that has quickly gained popularity for its innovative designs and use of high-quality materials. Their pieces feature delicate lace and unique cutouts that add a modern twist to traditional French lingerie. Aubade, on the other hand, is a well-established brand that has been around since the 1950s. They are known for their intricate embroidery and attention to detail, making their lingerie pieces truly special.

Atelier Amour and Aubade both offer a variety of lingerie pieces, including bra and panty sets, bodysuits, and garter belts. Their designs range from delicate and feminine to bold and daring, so you're sure to find something that suits your style. Whether you're looking for a classic French look or something more modern, these brands have you covered.

For Bridal Elegance: Simone Perele

When it comes to bridal lingerie, Simone Perele is the perfect choice for any bride who wants to feel both sexy and elegant on their bridal boudoir photoshoot. Simone Perele is a French lingerie brand that has been around since 1948, and they are known for their exquisite bridal collections that exude grace and sophistication. Yes, there is a trend here towards French brands - can you blame me? Paris is one of my favorite cities in the world, and French women know how to do lingerie!

Simone Perele's bridal lingerie pieces are crafted with the utmost care and attention to detail, using the finest materials such as delicate lace, intricate embroidery, and soft, feminine colors. Their bridal collections offer a wide range of options, from traditional white or ivory sets to more modern, colorful pieces. They also offer a variety of styles, from classic bra and panty sets to more unique designs such as bodysuits or corsets.

Not only is Simone Perele's lingerie beautiful, but it is also incredibly comfortable to wear. They use high-quality materials that feel soft and luxurious against the skin, ensuring that you'll feel both comfortable and confident for your boudoir session and on your wedding day. Simone Perele's lingerie is also designed to fit a wide range of body types, so every bride can find the perfect piece for them.

For Burlesque Flair: Dita Von Teese

For those who want to embrace their inner burlesque star and add some sultry flair to their boudoir photo shoot, Dita Von Teese's lingerie line is the perfect fit. Dita Von Teese is a renowned burlesque performer known for her seductive and glamorous performances, and her lingerie line embodies that same aesthetic.

Dita Von Teese's lingerie is all about creating a sense of drama and allure, with designs that are both daring and elegant. Her collection includes a range of stunning pieces, including sultry corsets, high-waisted panties, garter belts, and more. Each piece is crafted with the utmost attention to detail, using luxurious materials such as lace, satin, and mesh to create a look that is both glamorous and sexy.

One of the standout features of Dita Von Teese's lingerie line is the focus on shaping and enhancing the body. Her corsets are designed to cinch in the waist and create an hourglass figure, while her high-waisted panties and garter belts accentuate the curves of the hips and legs. These designs are not for the faint of heart, but for the daring woman who wants to embrace their inner sex kitten and feel confident and powerful. While I am a lover of black, her color palate, especially this spring, is

S T U N N I N G.

NYC Edge: Thistle & Spire

One of the most popular bodysuits from Thistle & Spire - I love photographing this one!!

For women who want to add some New York City edge to their boudoir photo shoot, Thistle & Spire is the perfect brand. Thistle & Spire's lingerie is all about creating a unique blend of hard and soft, with intricate designs that showcase a bold and daring aesthetic.

Thistle & Spire's collection includes a range of stunning pieces, from strappy bralettes and cutout bodysuits to delicate lace pieces and mesh styles. Each design is crafted with the utmost attention to detail, using luxurious materials such as satin, mesh, and velvet to create a look that is both edgy and elegant.

The Ultimate Splurge: Bordelle

Bordelle is the ultimate choice for those who want to invest in luxurious lingerie that is sure to make them feel confident and empowered. Bordelle's designs are unique, edgy, and unlike anything else on the market, making them the perfect choice for women who want to stand out from the crowd.

Bordelle's lingerie is inspired by bondage and fetish wear, with designs that feature straps, buckles, and other unique detailing in incredible 24 carat gold (!). That’s right, the hardware accents and zippers are plated in 24 carat gold. This aesthetic is perfect for the daring and bold woman who wants to make a statement and feel powerful during their boudoir photo shoot. Bordelle's designs are not for the faint of heart, but for those who are willing to take risks and embrace their inner dominatrix.

OR - and hear me out here - if you want to embrace the lingerie as outerwear trend - you could pair many of these pieces with a simple black blazer for a fierce look ready to go to work or after work drinks!

The other thing I love about them is that you can tailor your look to be as strappy as you want it to be - you can add on leg garters and /or a belt, or keep it more simple to customize your lingerie look.

In conclusion, designer lingerie is a must-have for any woman who wants to feel confident and beautiful during their boudoir photo shoot. By investing in high-quality lingerie from brands such as Atelier Amour, Aubade, Simone Perele, Dita Von Teese, Thistle & Spire, and Bordelle, you can create stunning and unforgettable images that capture your unique beauty and personality.

Whether you're looking for delicate elegance, daring designs, or edgy New York City flair, there is a designer lingerie brand out there that will suit your individual style and preferences.

To shop for all of these designer lingerie brands and more, be sure to check out Sugar Cookies NYC. Their selection of lingerie is curated to showcase the best and most innovative designs on the market, ensuring that you'll find the perfect pieces to help you feel confident and beautiful during your boudoir photo shoot.

Curious about lingerie? I’m hosting an event with Sugar Cookies this August and would love for you to join!

10 tips for visiting a lingerie boutique | My own lingerie shopping experience at Sugar Cookies NYC

A few weeks ago I was doing my annual closet switch, putting the winter gear away and bringing forward the warmer weather clothes. As I opened my lingerie drawer, I realized: there were a few pieces I wear all the time that were getting pretty worn out, and even more pieces in there that I just never wear. Which got me thinking… when was the last time I actually bought myself new underwear? To my surprise/embarrassment I realized I haven’t bought new underwear since 2017!

You can imagine there have been LOTS of changes in life since then. At the time, my body was still in flux from baby #1. Then I had a second kid, and then of course, came 2020. I know I’m not the only one whose body changed during the pandemic, or whose dressing habits changed.

And so, I knew I was in dire need for a lingerie refresh.

Outside the old Sugar Cookies storefront in Chelsea back in 2017. They’ve since switched to a more private boutique with a “Lingerie Speakeasy” feel to it.

However, if you're an infrequent lingerie shopper, it can be a little intimidating to set foot inside a boutique. Even me, a boudoir photographer who tells women every day how beautiful they are (and believes it!) felt nervous! All the more reason, I thought, to practice what I preach. So with all of this in mind, here are 10 tips I’ve learned to make lingerie shopping both easier and more comfortable for you. Because even if you prefer shopping online, nothing can quite compare to the one-on-one expert attention you get from your local lingerie salon.

Before you go, it’s a good idea to take inventory of what you already have. Anything that is saggy, stretched out or has elastics sticking out should automatically be retired. Anything too tight that if feels uncomfortable and anything you haven’t worn in a year should also say goodbye. (Side note: Keep an eye out for bra recycling programs - Sugar Cookies hosts one every March and will donate a bra for every old one you turn in to recycle.)

Look at what you do wear often and consider why. Then, consider what NEED and what you WANT from your shopping experience. Having a plan helps you prioritize when you are at the shop. I was hoping for a good every day bra that still felt special and was interested in getting something that could be worn under a shirt of blazer as a lingerie-as-clothes look.

And with that, I headed out to Sugar Cookies! Here are my 10 best tips for your lingerie shopping experience:

1) Start on the right foot by going to a specialized lingerie boutique, NOT a chain.

You want to work with someone who understands and cares about lingerie, and can spend time getting to know you and your needs. Independant and female owned boutiques are my favorite - who better to help you figure out the ins and outs of undergarments? Also consider your own style when selecting a place to shop - the best boutiques are very well curated and while they will carry a wide selection, they are not necessarily one size fits all. Do your research and be sure the shop you select fits within your style and price point. For example, if you are looking something special, you would want to find a shop that specializes in luxe laces, not tee shirt bras.

2) If you're shopping for a special occasion, like a boudoir shoot, be sure to let the boutique know you’re on your way.

Calling ahead and making an appointment is the best way to ensure a boutique will be ready for you. Sugar Cookies will even hold time if they know when you are coming so you can have a private shopping experience. The team can make sure you have the best experience possible, and perhaps even pre-select a few items for you to try on.

3) Arrive as your best self.

Lingerie requires a certain mood to be truly appreciated. You may not think you’ll want food in your stomach before going lingerie shopping, but trust me, low blood sugar will sabotage your experience (the same goes for your boudoir shoot by the way!) So put on a little lipstick, try not to shop tired or hungover, and eating a light meal or snack before you go shopping. A little self-care beforehand will make the experience much more enjoyable.

4) Show up wearing a nude, low-rise thong or similarly "cheeky" panty when lingerie shopping.

This allows you see how the lingerie would look if you weren't wearing anything underneath, while still maintaining proper hygiene.

5) Don’t stress the sizes

Just like regular clothes, different brands size slightly differently. Some run big and some run small, so my best advise is not to overthink the sizing. My whole life I have considered myself a 32A. The last time I was fitted, I learned that in some brands I was a 30B and in some a 34A… this felt hard to believe but ultimately it just doesn’t matter! So this time around, I let Suzanne bring me lingerie and I didn’t ask or care about the sizes. If it was too small, she’d bring me something bigger and vice versa. It was her job and not mine to determine my size.

Suzanne, the fabulous owner of Sugar Cookies, helping me with sizes.

6) That said, get a proper bra fitting, especially if it's been over a year since your last one.

No judgement if it’s been awhile - I am the most guilty of this! Time time flies by, life gets crazy and there's a very good chance your body has changed, even slightly, since your last fitting. A well fitting bra is a game changer - you’ll feel the difference physically as well as psychologically, believe me.

7) Try the "scoop and adjust" technique when trying on bras.

This is the only way to be sure your breasts are centered and that the bra fits properly. A sales assistant can show you how to do this if you're unfamiliar with it.

8) Go outside your comfort zone and be honest about what you like.

Lingerie boutiques offer many unique items that you’d never at a regular department store. Don't be afraid to try a new fabric, a new color, or even a new item entirely (corsets and garter belts, anyone?). I’ve recently been into the visible lingerie trend, and where better to test this out? If you’re honest about what you are looking for your sales associate they can make suggestions and bring you something you never would have found on your own. Nervous? Don’t worry, they’ve seen it ALL.

9) Be clear on the store’s return and refund policy before purchasing.

The great thing about shopping in person is that you have a much higher rate of success, and theoretically you won’t be buying something you aren’t sure about. But things happen - I had a client once find out she was pregnant right after she bought. new lingerie, for example. Certain items are always non-returnable, like stockings. Often sale and clearance items are final sale as well. Be wary of boutiques with an "everything is final sale" policy, and understand that some shops will offer store credit only with returns.

10) Remember that it's okay to say "No."

You should never feel pressured into buying something you don’t like. A reputable boutique will always tell you when something doesn't look good on you or fits improperly. Listen to your gut and if you don’t feel your best in a piece at the store, it’s unlikely you’ll feel your best in it back at home. Move on and look for something else.

BONUS TIP: Have fun!

Lingerie shopping can be one of the more enjoyable things in life, especially when you go to the right place. So relax, allow yourself to indulge, and enjoy. I was nervous going in to this experience and I ended up having the best time.

So what did I end up with?

My purchases!

As a mom of 2 comfort is often key, so a soft cup bra is a frequent go-to. Most of mine were too small and digging in to my skin leaving lines behind, so this was on my “need” list. Suzanne helped me find this Simone Perele piece that was soft and comfortable but also had some side boning, which gave me a a little extra “umph” and didn’t make me feel so flat chested.

There was a set from Fleur du Mal that I loved but didn’t come in my size. Taking this as inspiration, Suzanne recommend this Chantelle set. It wasn’t even on the sales floor, so if I wasn’t shopping at a private and specialized boutique I would have missed this. It’s lacy and lightly padded so I can wear it under most outfits feeling confident and subtle sexy. I also got the matching cheeky bottom and felt AMAZING wearing this on my birthday.

Since the Sugar Cookies holiday party I have had my eye on this dark floral nightgown. Luckily there was one left in the shop and even luckier it was in my size. It feels so light and soft, and with a belt I could even wear it as a summertime slip dress. It was a splurge, but I figured it was my birthday and I have literally been thinking about this one for 3 months, so even at a higher price point it was a worthwhile purchase to me. If you love something and feel incredible every time you wear it, it’s a better purchase than something that you feel so-so about it, even if it was “cheaper.” So when shopping for anything really, I try to consider value over the straight up number on the price tag.

I didn’t get a lingerie as outerwear piece on this trip, but now I have something on the “want” list for next time! Do you have tips to lingerie shopping? I'd love to hear it in the comments!

And psst: if you are a lover of lingerie and boudoir, Sugar Cookies NYC and Brooklyn Boudoir are teaming up this summer for a weekend of lingerie, boudoir and NYC fabulousness! Contact me to learn more!

Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir Present a New York City Boudoir & Lingerie Photoshoot Retreat!

💥 Big news! 💥

Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir present: Boudoir in the City

A Lingerie and Boudoir Experience in NYC

August 4 - 6, 2023

Join me for a New York City weekend filled with luxe lingerie, boudoir, NYC skyline views and some surprises a long the way. I am very excited to announce the 2023 New York City Lingerie & Boudoir retreat, hosted by Brooklyn Boudoir and Sugar Cookies Lingerie!

While I love my Bushwick studio, the one thing it doesn't have is New York City skyline views. Many of my clients are hoping to get *THAT* shot which is no longer possible outside of a special event like this one. So to all of you who ask about the skyline shots, this event is for you!

The Event

It's no secret that Sugar Cookies is one of my favorite boutiques in the city. With each event we produce together, a group of tightly knit, like-minded women is born!  These past events together have been so popular, we've decided to step it up a notch and offer an epic New York City lingerie & photoshoot experience!

Who is this event for?

 This is an amazing way to test the waters of boudoir photography if you’ve been curious to try it, or to refresh your collection. You’ll also connect with other women and get some epic photos with a stunning New York City backdrop.  
Most of my special events are limited to past clients only, but this experience is open to all women, regardless if we have previously worked together.  Out-of-towners, local New Yorkers, women of all ages: if you want to spend a weekend celebrating yourself in the world's greatest city, this event is for you!

What you can expect

• A welcome reception to get to know each other, form connections, and enjoy camaraderie with a small group of like-minded women.

• A salon-style talk with Stephanie, Susanne and Samantha Rose about all things lingerie, boudoir & confidence (and how they are all related).

• A private lingerie shopping experience at Sugar Cookies Lingerie NYC.

• A 45-minute boudoir shoot in your new lingerie at the Wythe Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn, featuring one of the best views of the iconic NYC skyline.

• A group dinner and burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexiest!) venues.

• Special offers and early access to future events (trust me, this is going to be BIG)!

Tentative Schedule

Friday August 4

Evening welcome reception, bubbly and salon talk at Sugar Cookies

Saturday August 5
Private lingerie shopping appointments at Sugar Cookies boutique
Free time in NYC with Stephanie & Susanne's recommendations and favorite places as a guide
Dinner and a burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexist!) venues

Sunday August 6
45-minute private boudoir shoot at the Wythe Hotel, featuring the NYC skyline and YOU in your new lingerie
Breakfast or Lunch, Sparkling wine, light treats
Sunset meet-up at the Wythe Hotel Rooftop Bar

The Extras

In addition to all of the above, you will also receive 10+ fully-retouched digital boudoir images in a downloadable online gallery, a behind-the-scenes video, plus other surprises and special treats.

Pricing

All of the above + other surprises: $2049

The Small Print

50% due upon booking. Balance due 10 days before the start of the event.
Lingerie Purchases, transportation, and lodging not included.
Hair and Makeup Artist for your shoot is not included, but available as a $200 add-on if desired.
A block of hotel rooms will be put on hold for those coming in from out of town- please inquire. The earlier the better - availability is limited.

We can't wait to see you and enjoy a weekend of celebrating your best, most confident self in New York City!

Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different than other Brooklyn Boudoir Experiences?

The typical Brooklyn Boudoir Experience takes place at my studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn and lasts 3 hours from start to finish. While I love it there, I do sometimes miss the days that I photographed women at hotels. This event will span over three days, but you will also have plenty of downtime. Your boudoir shoot will take place at the Wythe Hotel last approximately 45 minutes and we’ll capture 1 -2 lingerie looks. So while your shoot will be shorter than the usual Brooklyn Boudoir Experience, we will be spending more time together over the course of the weekend talking, socializing and having fun

Is Hair and Makeup Included?

No, hair and makeup is not included, but can be added on for an additional $200.

What if I am coming in from out of town?

You are welcome to join! We will be putting a block of rooms on hold for those coming in from out of town, so please inquire! Each day, you can plan to spend 1-3 hours with us at our various events, but the rest of the time you will be free to explore NYC.

How many photos will I get?

You will receive a minimum of 10 photos.

Are meals included?

Dinner on Saturday night and brunch on Sunday are included. Snacks and bubbly will be available throughout. You will be on your own for all other meal

Will there be more events in the future?

Yes! We have lots of other ideas for retreats in the works. However, each retreat will be completely unique with different offerings to keep things fresh. So the next retreat will not be at the Wythe Hotel… it may not even be in New York! ;)

How can I stay in the know?

Be sure to follow along our social media to learn about our future events: @brooklynboudoir @sugarcookiesnyc